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Parenting
- A Trust (Amana)
What kind of future do we want to leave behind for our children and what
kind of world should they inherit? The answer to these questions lies
in 'good parenting' as well as our determination to work for the good
of humanity. Effective parenting means passing on values, ethos and a
sense of responsibility to the children. The family as an institution
where fathers and mothers create a happy and joyful atmosphere conducive
to learning is central to parenting. This needs creative thinking, strategic
planning, full commitment and the utmost sacrifice. As leaders, mentors
and teachers of children parents are responsible for their children's
futures.
Parenting is more than parenthood. It is the conscious endeavour to look
after the physical, emotional, social and spiritual wellbeing of children.
It is a journey that starts from the moment a baby is conceived in the
mother's womb through his/her birth until adulthood. It is rewarding and
adventurous and it is concurrent with the human purpose on earth. Considering
children as both a 'test' and a 'trust' (Amana), people of faith consider
parenting as the gateway to success in this life and the life to come.
Parenting does not end at the time a child crosses puberty or becomes
sixteen. Each life has only one chance and no sensible parent can afford
to gamble on this. The reward of positive parenting is enormous and eternal.
On the other hand, poor parenting can bring devastating consequences for
family, society and nation. For minority communities in the West, it can
be a recipe for disaster.
'Amana Parenting' considers family as the centre of nurturing
human beings and the cradle for human civilisation. It believes parents
should play a generational task of sustaining stable societies and the
family should reclaim its role as nursery, school and university to produce
community and civilisation. It deals with social ills holistically and
assertively. It endeavours to work with interested parents, both mothers
and fathers, and intends to create a parenting movement because that is
the crying need of our time. We draw our inspiration from the inherent
goodness in human nature as well as from hope and optimism. |
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